Did he really just say that? - a vent
DH is supposed to have SD tomorrow and gave her the deadline of 9pm to let him know if she has other plans (with friends). He called her and let her know that she would have to spend a little bit of time in after school care since he couldn’t get across town until 4 at the earliest. She said something about checking with BM. (This is where I think DH should have just called BM to start with, even though he avoids talking to BM.) I also think she gave him a cop out answer since she doesn’t like to go to after school care.
Once he hung up, he said something about letting her decide. Decide? Decide?
She is 13, she should not be making the final decision on when she with her parent. Then DH said something about making her think it was her decision. What?!? Does he hear himself? I said to him “how is letting her think she made the decision helping anything?” He didn’t really have anything to say after that.
BM ended up calling him and they finalized details. He then called SD and let her know what’s up (even though she is at BM’s house). *eye roll*
And I know I’m venting, but I also feel bad because as I’m venting, he’s putting our toddler to bed, even though he has a headache. Ugh.