I have a 3 and a half year old stepson who is in my opinion out of control. It seems all of the problems between my husband and I are around him. If his son was mine he would not be acting that way, like today and ever day he is over he is still up at almost 11pm and will be up past 12am. We have a 3 month year old daughter together and he complains that she needs to go to bed earlier. Well how do you accept her to fall asleep when his 3 year old is running free like an animal. As you can see I really don't like him. I think I might if he was under control.