First time in 5 years
That SS19 spent a holiday with us. Last time was Christmas of 2014, he was alienated shortly after in early 2015. He came back into our lives in 2018 but did not see us on any holidays.
Things went fine, he's not the dramatic type, and it didn't appear that BM was home when we went to get him (possibly). DH wants to cook another meal next weekend with SS and any friends he wants to invite.
He's not a bad kid, just has zero direction in life and still has what I consider completely unrealistic plans for himself. But at least he's back in our lives, I know that DH is happy with that, even if he's disappointed in SS's path in life (or lack thereof).