Am I wrong in my thinking?
SD18 is out of BMs house and at a group home; she is being transitioned to her own apartment. At 18, the custody order doesn't apply anymore as far as visitation....she can come and go without any say from BM. Here's my issue - SO still gets SD16 every other weekend. I would prefer that if SD18 wants to come visit, she comes on those weekends. We saw them both last weekend. Last night, he said that if SD18 wanted to come over he would go get her if I didn't have a problem with that. She hadn't called and asked, he was just asking me in case she called. I said I prefer he keep it to every other weekend with SD16. His argument: the co rules don't apply to her anymore, she should be able to come over anytime, he just wants to spend time with his kid. My argument: I get it, so you can go meet her anytime you want, I need eowe without his kids. Now - my 2 kids live with us (their home before he moved in). Before he could even bring that up, I told him I thought it was different cause mine are 22 and 26, they go their own way, not up under us and take care of themselves. Even tho his girls are 16 & 18, HE treats them likes little kids - always checking to see if they're ok, cooking for them, etc. He plays daddy to the fullest. That's fine but like I said, I prefer that only eowe. Am I out of line since mine are here everyday and I only want his around eowe? I want to be fair and maybe I'm just flat out wrong. ***He's at the store right now....my son is at work....my daughter is here and the house is PIN DROP QUIET. If his kids were here, it would be LOUD & NOISY***