SO SICK OF BIO MOMS CRAP
I am new to this so please bare with me. I apologize. I have 3 step children. An 18 year old SD by one mother (bm1) 9 and 6 year old ss from another mother (bm2). It is total hell dealing with all of their crap without adding my husbands crap to it. I also have an 8 year old of my own, who's father was recently killed in a motor vehicle accident. I guess my main complaint, at the moment, is "what really is fair" and why aren't the same rules played on both ends? I am responsible for my son, no one else is. I support him, I clothe him, I pay for anything he needs. My husband doesn't, if he actually does, I reimburse him. If the bms take their kids on vacations or throw them birthday parties my son isn't invited, nor would I ever expect it. But I am an evil sorry sm bc my son wanted to invite friends from school to his bday and the skids werent invited on a trip I took my son on. I have taken all of my skids on many trips, bm2 went to Vegas, new York, destin and a few other places just last year and has never taken her 2 boys! But I'm a total bitch for not taking them. Why doesn't she? And why should I continue to force my son to invite his 2 sbrothers instead of his friends to his bday? My step boys have 3 bday parties, my son gets 1. They have nothing in common. So I punish mine so they get it all????