NCP Biodads and Court Costs Observation
Being on this forum for almost 16 years now by my count, I've noticed a trend with NCP biodads and court costs. They can spend oodles of cash on attorneys yet it all seems to be for naught. HCGUBM's still rule the courts and are taken as saints in front of the authorities. PASing continues on unabated and the HCGUBMs are never ever called on it. Some HCGUBMs get quite bold and literally break the law but the courts look the other way.
Meanwhile NCP biodad has basically flushed his hard earned cash (and in many cases, SM's cash either directly or indirectly) down the commode. They do put up a valiant fight only to lose over and over again to the system. Then people wonder why dad simply drops the rope and gives up as there is no fighting the PAS.
Frankly I'm glad in my case that Chef dropped the rope early on after five years of our HCGUBM's (Girhippo) scorched earth, neutron bomb, napalm, guerilla warfare PAS tactics. She learned from the best of the best as HER BM (Battleaxe Galactica) was a serial alienator as well. Some might say they were far too young to give up but we did NOT have the money that some dads do; Chef is strictly blue collar and comes from a dirt poor family... and I wasn't about to see my salary eaten up at court, albeit it was actually supporting Chef whilst he paid mega CS. Especially when I have clawed my way up to a reasonable middle class salary with virtually no college education and after having worked for over 35 (now almost 42) years.
Seems like dropping the rope early on is the best tactic unless you have unlimited funds and are an attorney to boot.