Been lurking lately as the job has exploded! They sent my coo coo co-worker packing to another office and she is still mourning the fact she no longer supports the "handsome men in uniform" dept. Did several scenes from "Sunset Blvd" including a "farewell tour" of ALLLLLL her FRIENDS in the "handsome men in uniform" dept, but I digress.

I think it was JustanotherSM who got "busted" when her SD found and printed out her blogs to show DH. At which time he freaked out.

I just wanted to share that very same experience, although this site was never breeched. I stupidly left checked the "don't sign out of email" option on my laptop at home.

Of course, Chef was snooping around on my laptop and found that I was corresponding with a fellow SM from ST. HE.WENT.BALLISTIC!!!

I got a call at work from Chef: "Who is XYZ?"
My heart lept into my throat. At first I denied it (which was stupid). He pretended to be calm and rational about it that night. Started lecturing me like I was some sort of child.

Chef is a "stewer" He "stews" about stuff and gets angrier and angrier. Fueled by liquid asshole (bourbon) it wasn't until the next day that he violently exploded in anger that I besmirched him and his family, namely his beeeeaauuuuuuuuuuuuuuutiful wife (the giant BM) and his beeeeaaauuuuuuuuuutiful children (his children are so ugly they should be banished to their own island). The argument that I was doing this rather anonymously whereas he would share with his CHILDREN about our personal life when they were well below the age of 9 didn't hold any water with him.

So now I lurk on my phone (not signed in), I NEVER go to ST on my laptop at home nor do I EVER leave myself logged into ANYTHING on that laptop. I only participate on an old work computer here at work. Lesson learned!