Yesterday and just needing to vent....
So DH picks up the skids yesterday for spring break and the first thing that comes out of OSS's mouth to me is "Do you have febreze my room smells bad? I told him "No, I don't and I just cleaned your room". I went into his room and nothing smelled bad so I have no idea what he was even talking about?
I am thinking well you don't take a shower unless you are told to so the bad smell is most likely coming from you. I wanted to tell him that but I didn't. My DH was going to pick something up from the store so he picked up febreze for OSS.
DH and me talked to YSS and told him that if we catch him sleeping on the couch again that he will get woken up and told to go to his room. He was laughing when DH told him this. I told him that he won't think it's funny when I wake him up!
I know that this is typical pre-teen behavior but I am utterly tired of the disrespect from these kids. My house is always clean and then OSS goes home and whines to BM that our house is dirty, we starve them, there is no sheets on their beds. BM would come to her snowflakes rescue and just show up at our fast with fast food or a brand new pair of sheets when OSS complained during DH's visitation time.
This happened last year that she would just show up. She hasn't shown up lately. Thank god! However, her constant monitoring still happens all the time. She will text DH and have her bitch fest about how he doesn't care about his kids.
This usually happens on an extended visit because she is so worried about her snowflakes and that they are being properly taken care of. She even got my MIL involved last year as well. I had to tell my MIL to back off because of her.