So not to my surprise New Years was a shambles. My fiancé’s ex decided last minute that she didn’t want her son for New Years and that my fiancé could have him. Which was fine with us. My SO had been saying he wanted to stay home have a nice meal etc with me and my daughter anyway especially since I have been really ill with this pregnancy.
It’s like my partner is just ok with me bawling my eyes out down the phone as long as his son has got a smile on his selfish little face.
I just want to scream and tell my partner that I cannot stand your son!
I give and I give, Ive done so much for my partner. I stuck by him when he went to prison, I took care of his nan while he was away, he had a bad past that I accepted as people can change and people make mistakes.
My partner seems to discipline my 3 year old daughter but not his 10 year old son. It really upsets me as sometimes his son can be so rude to him and just gets away with it. He’s a massive push over when it comes to his son and I hate saying this but it makes me dislike his son at times.
When we don’t have his son and it’s just me, him and my daughter things are great but then everything changes when his son comes. His son doesn’t even like to share with my daughter most of the time and my partner then makes excuses for him!