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sweetthing's picture

I just did some detective work & discovered that BM's nasty BFF that she constantly exposes my skids to has been arrested & convicted of theft twice. When BM had this woman's kids for a month because she was in Ls Vegas for job training she was in the Shakopee woman's prison serving 30 days. WTF! BM had this woman watch her house when she was out of town this month & she left her garage door wide open & was a bitch to me when I stopped by her place to tell her because I was afraid someone could rob BM's house or the dog could get out.

I just have always had a bad feeling about her & I guess I was right. What would you do?

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stepkate's picture

I'll fess up-I did a fairly extensive internet records search on BF, BM, and both of their families already.

Great place to start your investigation: http://pipl.com

Hours of entertainment.

sweetthing's picture

Minnesota has a criminal history website that shows criminal convictions for free.

sweetthing's picture

Theft-by Swindle-Artifice/Trick/Device or Other...any idea what this could mean?

Sia's picture

probably theft by deception.....that would be like someone paying for a service that never existed, etc.

You can learn a lot about a person with very little info. I've always said that the internet has become a place for people to dump everything, and they never think about WHO is going to see the info or how they might explain things if they're ever caught doing something they shouldn't. FB is great for that. People are so stupid. They put things on there that should be private info, then wonder why they get taken advantage of. I no longer post anything personal on my FB that I dont want everyone and their brother to know. I also have locked down my FB and removed people that I dont really know (most of them).

I dont think people really understand what is out there about them. For instance, take your own name and run it through one of those websites like www.peoplefinders.com and you will be able to find all types of info about yourself. I think everyone should learn what is out there about themselves and then correct it. Its easy and can be done for free.

If you are concerned about it, I would have a conversation with BM. Just let her know that you "heard something" about her BFF, but don't let her know where you got your info.

frustratedinMA's picture

OMG.. what is with some of these bio moms? If the dad exposed the skids to someone like this.. they would be on the phone w/CPS and having visitation revoked or down to supervised visits..

No idea what you should do, what did DH think?

I am confused's picture

My exGF's stbExH BD thinks I'm a danger to the kids because I'm an asshole but he lets his kids sleep over across the street with a pair of swingers who have taken vacations at totally nude (as in at dinner even) resorts, have had sex with the neighbors, whose school superintendent won't go to their home, and WORST OF ALL the woman in the couple had sex with another woman in a CAR with two others in the front seat ON FAMILY VACATION while the kids were back at the condo!!!

Jesus... oh yeah, the BD got stinking trashed at the swingers' home and was shoving dollar bills into the ladies' pants while SD11 (a liver transplant recipient) and SS9 were asleep at 2 a.m. along at home.

The more I type this shit the more I realize she was playing me like a fiddle. Wink