I hate it when ex acts like we are stupid !!
On Tuesday DH emails his ex that I am having ultrasound to determine baby's sex on such and such date. He tells her ( not asks, yeah him!) that he will be taking boys out of school at noon that day to go. She has known for weeks and agreed that the boys could go with for this. They are excited & tell everyone that they are going. Today she emails DH & says I am totally okay with the boys going ( duh and BTW she responded back yesterday with an okay) but did you make sure that the ultrasound place will allow the boys in the room. Because she would hate for DH to miss seeing the baby because he had to sit outside the room with the boys.
WTF! First off the oldest is 9 & they could sit outside the room if need be... they are very good boys. Secondly my DR is totally cool with this & we are driving seperately because my appt is afterwards.
DH responded back with a yes & joked that some people allow the kids in the birthing room but that he draws a line there. She responds back good because otherwise she would do it for him.
She can drag them all over the country, do whatever she wants & rules she has for us don't apply to her.
Maybe I am hormonally sensative... I know I am very sensative about anything regarding my baby. Just because this is a second marriage does not mean my baby is any less of a joy than the first two. This baby is a miracle for me, I have been through a lot to have it and to be honest didn't think I would ever get pregnant again.
She has been pretty nice about it so far, but today irritated me. I am the one who did the freakin research on her son's braces that she didn't regarding insurance, she screwed up the daycare thing so we owe some additional money from last November, spoke with someone about getting ideas to help 6 y/o with his behavior issues at school when she just wanted to ignore it... you don't think I would make sure the boys could be there before promising them they could.
She always acts so superior. Having given birth does not make you any smarter than those of us that have not been able to. Or does that mean this summer my IQ will soar? LOL
Thanks for letting a crazy, old, and tired pregnant lady bitch.