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Husband is still checking up on 20 yr old SS

Sweetie's picture

Well,
Even after I am still miffed, and annoyed about the MD stuff. And wrote the letter and put it in the drawer. I am thinking that I am going to write a short note to my SS and let him know that 1. Here's the picture of your GF and you when you visited a month ago, 2. your Dad was injured on MD weekend but you never called,
and 3. by the way, your dad is still checking up on you and found out that your name isn't on the list of attendees for the TDY you told him you were going on to Denver next month. In fact, he checked twice, just to be sure he wasn't mistaken.
So, maybe you'd better rethink the grandiose stories you tell us.
Now, I wonder if a note like that would capture his attention. Smile I am literally sick and tired of being taken for fool. Tired of being used and tired of my home being used as a flophouse. I have a nice home which I am working hard on to decorate and landscape. We've done without the last ten years so the kids could have all the extras, but no more. This year is the last of the lean years cause I can't find work because of our recent move and it's our last year for support for my SD. Sometimes I think that if I wasn't so driven by the anger of things that had happened, I'd have no motivation to keep me going. Something happened yesterday to my right ankle again, and I must have basically blew it out. Because it is all swollen. I don't know if all the screws are loose in the metal plate and bone fittings, but I do have a pretty good idea that now, that my tendons are toasted. I don't remember doing anything unusual, the only thing I did was change tennis shoes. But, I sure wish I hadn't done that.
I don't know how many of you have these sticky situations with your stepkids and if they are older. And then yesterday I got another letter from biomom, that she hasn't paid for any of my stepdaughter's medical bills since December of last year. Now she is claiming that because of the incident with the missing April payment that I already replaced, it caused her to be behind on her bills. Well, she makes over $80K at year, has no mortgage, lifes with her boyfriend, declared bankruptcy 3 years ago, gets child support plus TDY money, and still doesn't pay her bills. There isn't any excuse why she doesn't pay her bills. She still lives beyond her means. Oh, forgot, also, she let her home go into foreclosure, and car was repo'd, and she told kids car was stolen at her home. This a phenomenal wench! That's why I said my husband fell off the turnip truck! What a piece of work! Both of them working to protect the nation's security. Pretty, prety scary. My husband is book smart, but not worldly at all. And biomom is one scheming, lying &&***$$%%##@@!!/////!!!!!!! I think that covers it pretty well.
And I started today off with a bad migraine and it's not likely to get better. Now, doesn't anyone wonder why we moved to GA? Suddenly, I think that there are a lot of light bulbs turning on Smile
Hope everyone has a great day.
Regards,
Sweetie

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Sherrylyn's picture

I hope your husband understands what you are feeling, and that he supports you. That's what matters at the end of the day. What can we do about the children, stepchildren ex's and others who cannot fanthom how to act civilized? Just keep getting it out.