Per our decree I carry the insurance on BS 10. I carried it on our entire family when we were married. My ex only paid 25.00 a month towards it until a few months ago when I switched to go through the state to manage cs. He now pays his state ordered 40% of the cost. He has never seen a medical bill and had 1 22.00 dental bill.
It is open enrollment and he sent a wife email to bm1, myself and his new wife announcing he would be adding new wife to his plan and that it cost the same to add her as it would for the kids...family plan or single only option and gave us a list of copays and said we would be responsible for those.
I responded back asking about deductible needing to be met, rx copays and ortho coverage rather than providing him my insurance info as he asked for.
I have a 80/20 with a 1500.00 deductible. When bs has medical bills before deductible is met I just pay them and do not ask for exes 40% of the bill because I do not feel that he should have to contribute to my deductible...i doubt he would do the same to me. Also bs will need braces soon and my company will pay 50% of it up to 2k. All this needs to be factored in to evaluating who insurance he goes on along with a list of providers to see if they are the ones we use.
My ex ignored me and told bs I was going to force him to get braces and he would look like a nerd.
I contacted our case worker to see if she can get that info because the state says that insurance coverage should be reviewed from time to time and I don't want to appear uncooperative.
If I don't hear back I am just enrolling bs again on my insurance.