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It really isnt the SD .......

sunshine's picture

well it is but not as much as it is my DH.... Most of you may remember that a few months ago, my SD sent me some pretty ugly text messages. They were actually fighting words for me but I have yet to speak my mind to her. She has yet to even say sorry.

Well summer is here and because she is so lazy to get out and work, apparently my DH is supplying her odd and end jobs. GREAT! we can hardly pay our bills and he is paying her too,, which I guess he would be anyway IF SHE wasnt working. BUT she is almost 21 and there is no reason to NOT be working.

I told my DH when I received the text that she needed to stay clear from me. I have lost any ability to even try to continue to get along with her. So she comes during the day when I am at work.

I COME home yesterday and guess who is under my car port when I pull up. SD and DH!!! He ha her going through the shed to clean it out FOR MONEY!

So I go in the house, put the meat up that I was going to cook for supper and gather my two girls and leave!!! So I get even more ticked that I just left my house. BUT Im afraid it I didnt I would have jumped that girl. My heart was racing and I knew it was time for me to fly.

So SD has said her words to me throught text, treated me like shit, gets to come to our house when I aint there, eat my food that I buy, gets money from her dad to party on weekends and he gives her odd and ends jobs for more money.... Ladies, I dont see any support from my husband. I would think that he would stand up for me and tell her that until she acted her age and apoligized that she should not be having her hand out or coming to our house.... but instead I come home last night and he ACTS like I just got off work and came home after I was gone from 5 to 10:00 p.m. What do I say to him. I cant stand this. I think my health is starting to be affected by this nonsense. I think I am having heart palpations and it is scaring me.

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Amazed's picture

That would be something you should look into! Your DH SHOULD NOT be paying his ADULT daughter to do things around YOUR house. That's the most insane thing I've heard all week. Change those locks girl and IF he gives SD a key, change em again til he gets the point.

"We all have different desires and needs, but if we don't discover what we want from ourselves and what we stand for, we will live passively and unfulfilled.”

BridgingTheGap's picture

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BMJen's picture

She needs to start acting like one and your DH needs to make sure she does.

Put your foot down my friend. You can't go on this way.

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