You miss what, exactly?
SD9 has been out of state on her summer visit with her BM for two weeks now. She was supposed to stay for two more weeks, but now it's three because her BM got coronavirus and I'm adamant that SD stays away from my kids as long as possible.
She called last night and sounded annoyed. She was being short and unfriendly, as though someone forced her to call. Anyway, her dad was like, "I miss you," so she insincerely replied, "Miss... you... too."
Things have been AMAZING without her around. Less fighting (between my SO and me), no drama, no lying, no sneakiness, no misbehaving, no rule breaking, no disrespect, no dirty bathroom, no wasting of food, no stained clothing, no pity parties, no fakeness, no attention seeking... I mean, the list could go on and on! I am enjoying her absence to the fullest and I seriously wish that her BM had full custody instead of her dad. After this, I won't get another break from the kid until October and it will only be for one week. I asked my SO out of pure curiosity, "What exactly do you miss?" His answer was, "Who she used to be."