DH has never & would never tell me I'm not allowed to say anything to her. I haven't talked to him since she posted, but when he finds out, he'll be the first to say, "Tell her...".

If it were between my FB & hers, I would...well, I probably wouldn't give her the satisfaction of a reply there either.

I believe there is a time & place for everything. One of the ugliest things about FB is the amount of dirty laundry that is scattered from page-to-page. I can't bring myself to acknowledge or justify her childish poisonous comments & won't add to it on SS's wall for him & all of his friends to have to look at.

What's so remarkable about the whole thing is that because it didn't show up the day she wanted it, she's going to make DH out to be some deadbeat. Even with 2 layoffs, he has yet to miss or even be late (in a normal person's mind) on one.single.payment. In the 6 years he's been ordered to pay. We have copies of 2 letters DH submitted to CSE to close their CS cases & drop arrears to keep her deadbeat-ass out of jail over the 4 years he had the kids after she took off.

Funny thing, though...she has yet to acknowledge that lil tidbit anywhere on FB.

My thing with any reply, though, is that it's on SS's FB. I don't want to add fuel to any FB war...especially about shit that's NO one's business, like CS.

BM is a manipulator, & I know that anything I post will result in more drama. Perhaps some will see silence as an admission of guilt. In my opinion, for someone to assume such is ignorant. Frankly, it's none of their business, so they can assume whatever they want to.

If BM really wanted this to be about CS, she'd have contacted DH by phone to find out where the money is. This isn't about CS. It's about marking her territory & trying to push me out.

Let her friends see it. Let SS's friends see it, & let them assume what they will. They'll come to realize she's a liar, just like everybody does in time, & anyone worth the oxygen they suck will realize that her mouth spews raw sewage any time it's open.

What really gets to me is the hypocracy. She's accusing DH of being a deadbeat, yet she's the one who TWICE begged DH to drop the arrears to keep HER deadbeat ass out of jail.

I've blocked her. I can still see that particular comment, but it's the only one, & it's still bold...like it's shouting at me to look. LOL!

She left DH a message on his cell that same afternoon. She was very stern & kept saying, "I've been trying to work with you on this but if you keep giving me trouble, I'm justgonna have to do whatever I have to do...". I know she meant taking him to court, but she never did just say it. It was 4 or 5 times she repeated, "I'm just gonna have to do whatever I have to do". It was amusing to hear her turn everything on him, like he's just trying to get away with something. "If you keep giving me trouble..."---what, because it took the mailman a whole week to deliver the envelope???

I told him he should call her back & tell her to go ahead & do whatever it was she had to do. Let her take him to court & go before a judge & bitch & blame DH because it took a week for it to show up. ENCOURAGE her to do it! There are people who are months & years behing on their CS. LET her waste a judges time with her big fat alligator tears crying about how she's the victim in all of this & how DH is holding out to control her...a whole week! I'd pay money to hear a judge tell her to get a J.O.B!

Well, I called yesterday to check the status on the money order. Sure enough, she got it & cashed it yesterday. Funny thing though...no message on the cell to apologize for falsely accusing him of skipping out on payment. No message even to let him know she'd received it.

I can imagine the crow is tough to swallow. Perhaps it'll slide down easier with a big fat slice of humble pie...