As I posted yesterday, DF had his uncle's funeral to attend and he made MANY attempts all weekend to get in touch with BM about switching Monday night for Tuesday night with the kids. She never responded to him.

So I just went to daycare to pick them up last night (without DF, who was out of town for the funeral). There was a HUGE part of me that wanted to NOT pick them up and see what would happen, but we both agreed that would probably hurt the kids more than teaching BM a lesson (skids would feel like no one 'wanted' them or something).

DF was f.u.r.i.o.u.s. with BM though. He called her around 6pm and she answered, acting like nothing was wrong. She claims she never got the messages. And that her mom never called her to tell her anything either. BULLSH**

DF tells her that he's at a funeral and that she was lucky that SteppingUp (my angelic self }:) ) stayed in town and picked up the skids so that they wouldn't be left at daycare.

And here's BM's WINNER of a response:
"Well I CAN'T take the kids tonight because I'm having people over to watch MY Patriots play."

According to BM, having a football party trumps a funeral for reasons to not have your kids for a night. Glad she's got her priorities straight. I'm sure the fact that the Patriots stomped the Jets last night made her think that she was even more right in having her little party instead of being a mother.

(OHHH, and let me add that during BM and DF's relationship, she would FLIP OUT if he even TRIED to watch any football. She would give him a 20-item list of things to do on the weekends and he 'wasn't allowed' to watch football until those things were done. She would start a fight every time he wanted to watch any sports at all and refused to attend any sporting events..and now all of a sudden she's hosting football parties, going to hockey games, and she has a team that is "hers"...wow...and she's teaching her son, SS3 that he wants to be Tom Brady when he grows up...)