Re-entry of the EX
So a bit of background. My husband and I have been together for 11 years. He is older than I am and has 3 adult children with kids of their own. We are reasonably close with them, the youngest in particular. My husbands mother absolutely adores his ex wife. For years his ex referred to his parents as her mom and dad and spent her day liking and commenting on every Facebook post his family made almost to the point of obsession. Finally after a string of men she found a very wealthy lottery winner and they got married. For the next five years she travelled the world ignoring her kids and her grandchildren. One little girl is 7 and just had her first sleepover with nanny. My husband and I did everything for the step children during these five years while the first wife sat in the Florida sun.
She never liked me but we had got to a point where we were friendly at the kids birthdays. All until the night my brother in law passed away. The ex arrived at the visiting hours and was super rude to me at the funeral and the reception. She then proceeded to block me on facebook and act rude at every single even. Fast forward six months and she leaves her rich husband and his takes his fortune. Now she is back around his family non stop. She signed herself up for a family run in memory of my brother in law and put herself in charge of the team. She is visiting my ML and my husbands siblings every week and slowly worming her way into family functions. According to her the ex made her be mean to me. I know all this is a sham. She posts every move she makes.with his family on Facebook so I can see. She has also started tell the grandchildren 5 and 6 how she misses my husband and wants him back. I just dont kmow how to handle this.