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The nastiest message from OSD

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Submitted by stepmomto2many on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 8:25am

OSD added me on Facebook. Naive me though that we might be turning a new leaf and might even be able to bond. She messages me - Hi SM what's up. We messaged back and forth and she told me how she started clipping coupons because I inspired her and how when she moves in with us we could clip coupons together and try to build a stockpile like the ones on TV.

I was starting to really get excited. She always called me by my name and now she is calling me SM. She never wanted to hang out with me in fact she always ignores me. So I'm actually thinking that things are finally going good between us and we may actually bond SM to SD. I even told DH I'm starting to open up a little to the possibility of her living with us. I honestly really sincerely thought that things were great. We talked that day on Facebook for like a good 2hours back and forth. But later on last night I get a very nasty message.

OSD: SM when I move in with you guys I'm moving in with my dad not you. You are NOT my mom so don't think you can boss me around. If you even yell at me I will have my dad telling you to kick rocks. Let’s face it I'm his little girl you will be gone before I will. You're a sweet lady but very annoying. Don't have sex with my dad while I'm living there it’s just nasty. Can’t wait to clip coupons with you :)).

What just happened? Why would she be so nasty? Do you think maybe BM could have written that? I don't understand I thought we were bonding.

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kathc's picture

Submitted by kathc on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 8:46am

A^^^^^^^^^^YES!!!^^^^^^^^^^^^

Show him ALL of it, the nice two hour convo you had and also that nasty message.

Let him know that you are hurt and sad because you thought you & she were going to bond and now she's made it obvious that no matter what she doesn't like you. Work up tears if you can.

Don't let that little bitch move into YOUR house.

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Submitted by WarmBody on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 8:54am

I hate two faced people. I would question whether she is stupid enough to put stuff in writing that is that damning though.

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Submitted by Lalena75 on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 9:07am

I'm for the BM wrote that, or it never was SD in the first place but BM. Just way too out of left field. Either way I'd be showing DH so he can "ask" about her plans to do couponing with you when she moves in and how cool that is you have something in common (this will either confirm or negate she was the original messenger.) then ask her who the hell she thinks she is telling you that she controls your and DH's relationship and that will confirm if she was the messenger and if she was put her in her place that she respects both of you or she doesn't come.

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Submitted by HungryEyes on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 9:52am

I'm thinking BM wrote it too but who knows? I want to find out if you told DH and what he said.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 10:05am

Definitely show that to DH. Stepdevil14 tried to tell DH not to have sex with me when she was over for her weekly visitation or she'd never come over again. He looked at her and said "Go pack your bags then because that's NOT happening". She was stunned! But he stuck to his guns and she backed down.

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 10:13am

I can almost PROMISE you that BM wrote that OR... BM found the conversation between the two of you and quickly PAS'd her out of any progress the two of you made. I am sorry.

You really need to show this to DH, and OSD needs to be confronted about this.

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 10:18am

^^^I agree with you Hypo. When Sd14 pulled this shit on us, it came from HER, not BM.

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Submitted by whatwasithinkin on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 11:27am

see me always the bitch, she is 20? I would email her back and tell her that if she is concerned about her father having sex with you when she lives there then she needs to find an alternative place to live because we have sex three times a day, and your bedroom while you are not home will not be excluded.

sometimes you gotta give as good as you get!

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Submitted by theoutsider on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 12:49pm

FDH has primary custody of the kids, and I have been accused by BM of saying things posing as her kids...
SO, FDH instituted a NO TEXTING OR MESSAGING YOUR MOTHER EVER RULE.
He has said, you are more than welcome to talk to her any time you want. But call her, if she texts you, CALL HER BACK.

He and I do the same thing to the kids if they text us while at BM for visitation. They text us, we call them back.

HE really wanted to turn off texting capabilities all together, but can't find a way to do it.

Open to any suggestions though...

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Submitted by Onefootout on Mon, 04/15/2013 - 2:05pm

My money would be on SD. But would not be at all surprised if BM had a role in it direct or indirect. It does seem crazy that this girl thinks its okay to sweet talk you and get your hopes up, make you vulnerable and then...go in for the kill. Actually, that sounds a lot like a lot of narcissistic SDs on here. This sounds like the classic mini-wife syndrome I read about on this sight. That may be why people are suspecting BM. If BM is crazy, wouldn't surprise me if your SD had some type of psychological disorder.

Your SD also sounds like one of the mean girls in high school or junior high. Particularly the part where she butters you up, and then slams you.

I'll be interested to hear about who it was that actually wrote this horrible message.