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So SD is in coach pitch (first year) and SS is in tball (first year). BM signed them up and bought their gear. We all get along great. Would it be overstepping if I wanted to get a picture of the back of mine and SS’s shirts (also SD’s)? I will have a team shirt with my nickname on it. I just don’t know if BM should be the one taking the pics with them. I don’t want to steal the limelight by doing that. Thoughts?

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Every time I go to an event with my step kids and husband, I feel like I have to take a picture with them and post it to social media. I feel like I take the pictures only to post on social media. How can I stop thinking this way and enjoy the moment? We are going to the beach in the summer though and I do want a picture of us there. Do y'all dress up if going to the beach and take pics or do you just take them in the moment without it planned?

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Okay so tball and coach pitch are starting. Both SS and SD‘s team are having parent shirts made. My DH will not be at tne games because of work so he is not getting one. SS will be in tball and SD will be in coach pitch. I was wanting to get a picture of us standing side by side showing the back of our shirts, but both will be at BMs house before game so I won’t have time to take any before. We all coparent great but I don’t want to get over the top taking that pic and posting it without BM taking some sort of pic with her kids first if that makes sense.

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What should I do?

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Okay so tball and coach pitch are starting. Both SS and SD‘s team are having parent shirts made. My DH will not be at tne games because of work so he is not getting one. SS will be in tball and SD will be in coach pitch. I was wanting to get a picture of the back of our shirts (me and SD) and me and SS), but both will be at BMs house before game so I won’t have time to take any before. We all coparent great but I don’t want to get over the top taking that pic and posting it without BM taking some sort of pic with her kids first if that makes sense.

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Please give me advice.

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Okay so tball and coach pitch are starting. Both SS and SD‘s team are having parent shirts made. My DH will not be at tne games because of work so he is not getting one. SS will be in tball and SD will be in coach pitch. I was wanting to get a picture of the back of our shirts (me and SD) and me and SS), but both will be at BMs house before game so I won’t have time to take any before. We all coparent great but I don’t want to get over the top taking that pic and posting it without BM taking some sort of pic with her kids first if that makes sense.

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Long post, please read and give me some advice.

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Okay so SD is spending the night with her great aunt. SS4 was crying because he didn’t want her to and for her to stay with us. We only see them one night a week. Anyway, BM called and DH told her about the situation so she said for us to go on without SD7. I got pissed because that’s not her decision or business. BM doesn't ask DH about if SD can spend the night at her Mamaw's, so why should DH have to ask or even tell BM? SD7 then started to throw a fit and cry and was saying “it doesn’t matter what you say I’m not going with y’all.” DH didn’t do a thing about it.

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Should I let it go or no?

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Not SM related, but I just want opinions and advice. Me and DH work at the same retail store. We have an assistant manger who is very friendly. She always pokes my husband punches him lightly on the arm every time I walk with him. She also talks to me as well and is nice to me. He doesn’t see it as flirting, but that being her personality. He finds her annoying and tries to ignore it every time she does it. He has already talked to her once about it, but I guess she forgot. I am bothered by it, but he says that he doesn’t act upon it so he doesn’t find it to be a big deal.

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My DH’s dad passed away yesterday. His brother and wife, his aunts, nephew, skids, BM and her husband (they came by so the skids could see their grandmother and dad), were all at his mom’s house today. When it came time for them to leave, SS4 said bye and hugged me, but SD6 didn’t. She hugged her dad, grandmother, and aunt. She hasn’t seen her aunt in a while so I figured that was why. Before that though, I was on the couch and she sat in my lap twice. It kinda made me sad that she didn’t hug me bye, but she rarely does. But, she did hug me when I seen her Saturday.

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