Lazy Parenting Vent
I'm a broken record...
When it comes to your steps do you all just not give a crap what they do as long as it doesn't affect you?! Wondering if that may be the better mindset than feeling like the only person who does care.
My bf STILL is not actively parenting my SD. Same issues of : Tik Tok - not on private, inappropriate dances and songs, staying up late while over here - although now we continue on with our morning routine rather than let her sleep in (like most of you suggested), not caring about her education.
So, for some reason, these things still greatly bother me! I don't even know why because I try to rationalize and think well the way she turns out has nothing to do with me. We've had many conversations about these issues and he agrees but then does NOTHING to resolve them. Obviously he doesn't care and he's just telling me he does. Why do I even care? She's respectful to me, nice to my daughter (her little sister). So why do I have such a problem with things that shouldn't matter to me?! Should I just stop giving a shit? I just have a tiny gut feeling that one day, the way she turns out, will in fact affect me and my children as well.