DH Favoring his kids...
So, i'm currently going through a rough time and I just had an emotional, upsetting conversations with DH and I feel super depressed and upset.
Basically, we had a short, but long-overdue talk and I was so upset that I was pretty blunt about how I feel about him and the skids and their relationship. H strongly prefers SS6 to SS12 and although he loves them equally, he is just way, way more affectionate and loving with younger SS. With SS12 he seems to be constantly frustrated and isn't nearly as warm and loving with him as he is with SS6. It's not the age difference either, because it was the same thing when they were both younger. The horrible part is that SS12 is a way nicer, all-around nicer kid, even with his problems. SS6 is moody, sulky, angry, whiny, and is possessive and territorial when H pays attention to anyone but himself. It is revolting to watch and I am really frustrated because H just simply doesn't see it and refuses to admit it. Our conversation about that and other issues ended with me feeling awful and not knowing how to go about this... I've been crying all day and am just having one of those awful days.
Anyway, thanks for reading this, hopefully getting to vent a little will help me get through this.