well this is my firt time and I am so glad that this site is here. I thought I was alone. I have a 14old dh my DH has two grl two boys ages 18sd 16sd 14ss 8ss the 18,14, live with us and the 16sd lives with the EX the 8ss goes two weeks there two weeks with us. The EX- has had near to nothing to do with her 18yrold or 14yrold and had the nerve to leave a nasty message on DH cell that we keep them from her she lives on the other side of the the school and we live on the opp side. walking distance. she announced that SHE IS THERE MOTHER and I need to realize this. This EX-..... never takes her kids to church has missed every sporting event that they have been in does not show up for parent teacher anything awards night nothing never calls to say hey and when she feels bad about herself she calls to have them over for supper she is always busy when it comes to these two kids she gave birth to. she has not been a mother to either of them. the 18is over for supper right now and she never called to talk to her son or even ask if he wanted to come she knows hardly anything about me and has been a pain ever sience me and dh got together I never talk to her I know i could not contain myself any advice