New on this site. Hello hello everyone! I am happy to have found you all.
I now have a term for my 22 year old stepdaughter . MINI WIFE.
My step daughter refuses to see her dad with me. So I stay back. There was no blow out. I have known her for ten years now. Her mother hates me. I met my husband after their divorce, but still she blames me. That has rubbed off on the daughter.
The daughter tells my husband what to do and he does it. She never comes to our house, but she still tries to control it. I am talking decorating, renovations. Why does she care, she never comes over. I get angry at my husband because he listens to her. Its like I have no say. We usually argue and I eventually get my way, but still its so ridiculous she has a say. Like when I wanted to redecorate her room, the one she hasnt seen in two years! My husband said she was mad to hear that so dont touch it. That argument he won.
Her birthday is next saturday. I just found out he is taking her for dinner with her mom!!! On saturday night. Of course I am not invited. I feel such resentment towards her. Yet I know my husband is the nutter to go with it.
How do I get through the resentment??