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I caught my Son and Stepdaughter of 5 months having sex

stepcover's picture

I happened upon this site and I really need help. I came home early from work today and found my 16 year old son and my 16 year old Stepdaughter in my basment having sexual relations. They are both in there rooms and I am waiting for my husband to get home from work so we can talk to them together. I have no idea what to do or say to them. My husband has stepdaughter in his custody due to the death of her mother so I can't send her there. I just don't know what to do. I feel sick.


fedup13's picture

Eeeeshk!!! That is bad. I don't have any advice, just wanted to say sorry. When I was in high school, a couple in my hometown married. They both had multiple teenage children. The woman's son and the man's daughter started sneaking around and ended up marrying each other and having kids, not that this helps, but I thought it might make you feel a tad bit better momentarily to know this does happen to other people. Sad

ownpersonalopinion1's picture

ok. Your not alone. It happens.

My next door neighbors are married and were step siblings at one time.

Educate them about birth control.asap

oldone's picture

If she isn't on extremely reliable birth control take her to get the morning after pill now.

Convulsive's picture

Send your son away. Since Dad has his daughter with nowhere else to go & you obviously want them separated, send your kid to his Dad's.

When you see the ridiculousness of your initial thought to send your husband's kid away, THAT is when you're calm & rational enough to talk to these 2.

stepcover's picture

To clarify I said that just in the case that someone adviced me to do that not because that is how I feel. I am still waiting on my husband to arrive. Thank you for your advice.

oldone's picture

It's going to make family reunions years from now really icky. Imagine having to spend every holiday with your ex lover.

Lalena75's picture

My cousin and her step brother apparently um yeah got themselves in the same boat, it had apparently been going on for awhile till someone at school found out (another classmate) the shame put a huge kabosh on things as they may not be really siblings but some kids do see it as ick taboo and the potential for some serious bullying is there. I can't give you any new or different adivce than you've already been given, just that it does happen.

Jsmom's picture

This would freak me out to. Just calm down and be rational with them. I would consider moving out since my son is my priority. But, it depends on the character of your step daughter. If they have feelings for each other, you need to set limits. Now I can't stand my SD, so I would stop this completely. Depends on how you feel about her.

misSTEP's picture

You know, I'd think this was a crew but we had a snow day yesterday and I got to see a talk show where the girl's stepbrother was the father of her second, I got nothing.