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I appreciate the users on this website. I cannot explain to you how I felt walking in on my son and my stepdaughter. Changes have been made and actions have been taken to make sure it does not happen again. I do not think I will ever have enough courage to talk to any of my friends and family about this personal matter because it is embarrassing to all involved. So I am ever so grateful for all of your advice. When things settle down more I will probably post an update. I have got over the self-pity and I realized I need to stop looking at my son through goggles and understand that he is a teenager now and that he might not hold on to all the values and beliefs that I want him to and I have to live with that. DH and I still have some things to work out with each other. The blended family dream is not quite what I imagined but I believe God will see us through.

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RedWingsFan's picture

I so wish you the best of luck. I can't imagine what I'd do if I were in your shoes. I talked with DH about it last night and he said "thank God we have two girls" and I said, "Well, their genders don't matter, because your daughter has already come out claiming she's bi-sexual". LOL It's true though, she did last year - to ME of all people. I was like "ok"...

Anyhow, if you keep close tabs on them and make it difficult for them to get together in any way alone - that should put a halt to it, but teens are sneaky. Hell, if I had actually gotten caught and punished for a QUARTER of the crap I did at 16, my social life would've been killed!