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Sd manipulated a tragic funeral....

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Should I be surprised? Nah...but really this is low. I don't blog often, just when it gets too much. Sd13 and I had a huge come to Jesus a few weeks ago. I finally had it. Things got better for a few weeks. Bms cousin's wife, recently married died in a very tragic car accident. Sd has never met these people. She doesn't know them. She insisted on going to the funeral, despite dh trying to tell her she would have to ride with 7 people in a cramped car, people she doesn't typically get along with, for 6 hours, just to be told to stay out of the way.

I'm the maid

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Psycho sd13 has become more entitled than I thought she was. I don't normally like that word, but there really isn't a better one. I always knew she was selfish, narcissistic, princess syndrome. But the other day she came into the living room, and I casually mentioned to please not leave anymore bloody underwear bombs in the laundry, and that I was tired of having this convo with her (before anyone jumps on the don't do her laundry bandwagon, we are in a water restriction, have been for over a year.

Sd got kicked out of place for making out with a boy

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Ok, sd13 went to her moms this weekend. For anyone who doesn't follow, and I don't post much, sd is a sociopath, generally very violent, and is doing her damnedest to be pregnant ny 14 and on a pole at 18. She has gotten caught sending inappropriate pictures, texting sexual convos, etc multiple times. She just says, "I'm sorry, I don't know why I did it. I'm just a failure". The I'm a failure is the make daddy feel guilty stand by line. So this weekend bm decides to let ss11, her ss10, ss11's "gf"??, and sd13 got to some skating rink for kids. Sd is pushing the age limit.

Cold shoulder this morning

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So sd13 had a friend come stay the weekend this weekend. No problem there, the girl is a little enamored if sd, but she is a good, normal kid, and it doesn't happen often. They had a good time I think. Friend leaves Sunday. Dh asks me why I am all over sd, being mean. I'm like, huh? Apparently me telling her to put clothes on under her robe when she is coming to hang out in the living room, or to stop picking her nose and eating her boogers is mean. I correct her behavior, but its never been an issue. Dh wasn't himself this weekend either. I don't know what's up.

Update- sd13 starts with ANOTHER new therapist

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Well, she clammed up. Figures. It was the first meeting, but dh said she was just flat out rude. Called the therapist by his first name, telling him she didn't lie his last name, made fun of his clothes, and the artwork in his office, just being her usual ass. I think she was just showing off. She tried to be a badass in the psych hospital, and a girl or two called her on it, she got hit a couple of times for her mouth. Too bad she didn't learn anything. I hope this therapist can make a difference. He's sort of our last hope for the little sociopath,

Sd13 starts with ANOTHER. New therapist

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Sd13 will be seeing yet another new therapist today. She is pissed. She saw him one time when she was in the psych ward, during our family counseling session her bm and stepdad couldn't be bothered to attend. She said he "pushes buttons". I liked him. He called her on her crap, and didn't let her get off topic (her favorite I don't want to talk tactic is to jump around topics like she has add. I have add and can't stay up with her).

Sd13 rears her head again

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Christmas was a mess, though it could have been worse. The biggest problem was the very noticed lack of gratitude and a huge gussy fit she threw at my mils. She got $100 from her grandparents, on top of a bunch of crap she didn't even look at. Sd knows she isn't allowed to hold on to money, because of threatening to run away. So after she reads the card (stares blankly at the cash inside) dh picked up the money. She went crazy, screaming that it was hers, stomping her foot, the whole thing. She then runs off to the bathroom. Nice.

Sd13 portraying herself as a slut

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Ok, it's been a very long time. I posted last week and it disappeared. Sd13 is a roller coaster of sociopath. She has been committed, has to stay medicated, sees a psychiatrist, two counselors, and we had to make the school aware of her behavior because according to the hospital she has the potential when she gets upset or angry to be "a danger to anyone who doesn't agree with her".

I've been thinking

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I put a lot of thought into this after a certain commenter seems to have taken a deep concern with how I am treating my sd.

For those who don't follow, my sd is now 13. She has been treated pretty badly by her mom most of her life, but her biggest problem is mental illness. The kids is undiagnosed because of age. She has done a stint at the mental institution, and they would like to send her back, but dh won't do it (the hospital was not a good experience for us either).

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