I LOVE this site!
Hello everyone! I know that this is said a lot but this site is the only thing that can get me through sometimes. I am so happy that I stumbled upon this site. My DBf and I are both active duty in the military and we live together with SS3. He is with us about 45% of the time. The ex-wife is such a pain in my ass. I know how to handle stress, being to the middle east and all, but the stuff she bitches about makes me CRAZY. DBf pays her rent, phone, and she uses HIS car that he pays for, ON TOP of her CS and she STILL bitches about him not doing enough for her. When they got divorced, she was already in school and he said he'd keep his promise and help her through school. She goes to a fake college to get a fake crap certification that isn't worth anything. She works 4 hours a day, 4 days a week and complains that it is "too hard". The job that she is going to get with her crap certificate pays just as much as the job she is at now. The funding from DBf stopps 01 June 2010 b/c that is when she is done with school. Everytime she does something stupid, DBf threatens to take away everything, and you know what she says?! "well i know PLENTY of exhusbands who do the same thing for their ex wives" Umm... excuse me?! I would like to know who these people are.... because everyone WE know always tells us that this is rediculous. It would be a little different I think if she was the least bit grateful. Yesterday DBf and DumbBunny (the ex wife) got in a HUGE fight. He's been building a case against here for full custody and we think she is starting to catch on. We get him every other weds-sunday and he wants to start getting him Sunday-Sunday. Well DumbBunny throws a HUGE pissing fit. Not because she wouldn't get to see her son as much, but because she already has "plans" and also because she thinks that if we take him that much, then we won't watch him when she wants to go out!! HUH??? I love SS3 very much and so does DBf and we LOVE spending time with him. We are potty training right now and when DBf called DumbBunny after he went for the first time she wasn't HAPPY she was soooo PISSED that he went at our hous before hers. She drives me nuts. The truth is, she is scared of losing the little one because she does the stupidest crap. She screams and yells and curses at him, he even started repeating the 'f" word and we dont say that in front of him. He said shit at school the other day. She has a boyfriend every other day and always brings home these random guys in front of him. She views time with him as "having to watch him" and we view time with him as "getting to have him." She goes out drinking every weekend, even when she has him. She sleeps with a new guy then complains and crys when they dont call her back .I'm getting so sick of her crap but now I've learned to just sit back and laugh at it. I swear, some of the stuff she does is straigh out of reality TV. Anyway, i just want to say thank you to all of y'all on this site... It really has been a sanity-saver!