SS16 really pushing it lately.
He's been doing that thing where when he gets in trouble with his dad (and his dad isn't home), he asks me if he can do something or just tells me he's doing something because typically I don't ask many questions and let him do his thing (I'm disengaged AND came into his life when he was a preteen already so I never really formed a parental bond with him). I'm the "cool" one for that reason I guess you could say.
But anyway, he did it again today. SS tells me "I'm going to go see my friends" and I say "Okay..". I knew they were arguing because SO told me about it a little, no real context though, which is fine. I text SO and of course SS is not actually supposed to go anywhere and bla bla bla. It's like SS thinks we don't communicate. Its ridiculous. I'm sure he probably thinks I'm "so lame" or whatever for this and that's fine but I'm starting to get really annoyed. Lately I've been saying "ask your dad" when he asks to do anything and just walks away in a huff. I told SO to take care of it because it's not my bussiness.
I mean SO coddles his kids when they are young (he has an DD9 too and I slowly watch her become as mouthy as her brother because SO doesn't seem to discipline kids until they turn 12 apparently) so it's mostly his own doing that SS is such a mouthy brat sometimes but I digress.. lol
SKds really think we are dumb!