How DARE I not want SS15 at MY [birthday] party..
I'm having a house party with my girl friends for my birthday. Lots of drinking. Girl party. I would have gone out but...COVID. I told SO that I want SD10 and SS15 to be gone for the night. Something I never ask. He says he "understands" getting SD10 away (because she is needy as all h*ll) but SS15 "just sits in his room" and "he's been around parties before". etc. etc. For extra context, SD10 does not live with us most of the time and prefers to NOT be here so I think its easier for him to pawn her off.
I told him that I think its inappropriate and more importantly it's MY birthday. MY party. MY day. I'm a 26 year old woman who does not want a f**king teenage boy walking through the kitchen while I'm dancing with my friends and having him overhear our conversations. It's not appropriate. SO gets all flustered and angry that I keep pushing the subject throwing out random typical 'I am flustered and don't know what to say anymore' lines like "I don't care what you think!" He finally tells me "I already said I would do it so why are you bringing it up again?" With that, I dropped it.
He got them out last year for my birthday so I'm confident he will do it again. I'm just so irritated by his defensive daddy bulls**t. Its one night without your precious angels. You'll live. He's been getting a lot better but these moments remind me why I am disengaged for my own sanity. Haha.