We had two positive COVID-19 cases at my job so far so we are shut down for two weeks. SO asked his ex to keep the SKs for those two weeks (because she already picked them both up yesterday). SO is quarantining himself to just in case since we live together.
She refused and told him to PUT ME IN A HOTEL.
(SO obviously ignored her stupid request)
I've never been so f***ing furious.
When Princess10 comes over, I make myself very scarce. Where they are, I am not. I don't talk much to either of them and I don't go anywhere with them. I have my headphones in until she is asleep or goes back to BM.
SO brought SD10 on Thursday to spend a weekend with her. Fine by me. As long as he's home to take care of her, I have decided that I won't put up a fight about it, because I'm no longer expected to do all the work.
Funny how, now that I took a major or step back from being a parent, making SO do most to all the work, he is overwhelmed and frustrated with her.... just like I was! I guess I'm not so "mean" afterall, huh?
SD9 lives with mom primarily. No custody agreement. We haven't seen her since this whole corona thing started and BM hasn't demanded us to take her (shocking).
He's been doing that thing where when he gets in trouble with his dad (and his dad isn't home), he asks me if he can do something or just tells me he's doing something because typically I don't ask many questions and let him do his thing (I'm disengaged AND came into his life when he was a preteen already so I never really formed a parental bond with him). I'm the "cool" one for that reason I guess you could say.