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Bm must be spinning something

step off already's picture

Dh chatted with ss14 last night. He's in the middle of his second of three two week visits with bm for the summer. He's bored as hell and doesn't seem to enjoy his mother as much as he fantasizes he would.

He spent most of the call asking dh if he loved him. If dh was sure. Blah, blah, blah. No doubt a reaction to whatever bs bm is feeding him. Not sure what it could be but since the Onlything that has come up lately is ss NOT wanting to g to bm's after bm hinted that he didn't have to and we explained to ss it wasn't our choice, I'm sure bm is telling ss something along the lines of dh is trying to get rid of him, doesn't want to spend time with him or something lame like that. Funny. Dh is custodial and bm has him Every other weekend during the summer and has him for 6 weeks in the summer.

This woman tries anything to get out if taking cAre of her kid and then trying to change the story that it's not her fault.

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WTF...REALLY's picture

The part that always shocks me is...they say you do not want to spend time together, however...THEY are the ones trying to get out of spending time together with their own kids. It is so Fu*ked up!!!

step off already's picture

BM is notorious for this. It was really horrible when she was attempting to get back into his life a few years ago and just starting visitation after a 7 year absence. She'd tell SS that DH doesn't care about him, that he doesn't spend enough time with him, that he doesn't spend "alone" time with him and that everything would be better if SS lived with her.

SS would believe it when he was with her and would always come home mad at DH for not spending enough time with him... then he'd realize that he was with his father for 10 days in a row before he went back to BM's to spend his weekend.