Nothing more to do
i love my wife. And I care about her. Probably too much. Because when she says or does things that echo what her kids (25,27,and 30) have said about me, it cuts me to the core.
I have done, not just tried, things to make the situation better. I have sacrificed nearly one day every weekend for her to go see her kids, and grandkids. But I can’t even go on vacation without these selfish kids getting into long drawn out conversations. Even on our honeymoon, the SD wanted her to call and figure out her renters insurance!
I have done all I can. The only thing left is to care less and let go of this person. Her bratty ass kids can have her, because that’s what they all want, her without me. Selfish and self-centered, spoiled brats. But when I toss her out, I will bet they won’t be there to take her in.
I have had my fill of this dysfunctional behavior and have no respect for the skids. I have lost any respect I had for my “wife” because she is willing to throw away any chance of happiness together just so she doesn’t upset her children. Time to grow up and become a parent instead of a doormat!
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Time to grow up and live your
Time to grow up and live your life for yourself. Adult children do not to be guided thru life at those ages. Have you talked about what life would look like with you not in it around the children? Do they know they will be expected to take their mother in? I'd start talking like divorce is on the way in a matter of fact way and what they will have to do about it.
Already did that
I already had THAT conversation with the “wife” and told her I will not go on like this. Told her what I will Boli’s her tolerate and i am not living a life of apologizing for being upset with the way her”family” treats me. Told her I will file for divorce rather live like this any longer.
I have zero contact with her toxic spawn because they have given her the ultimatum that if she wants to see them or her grandkids, she has to leave me at home. Who the F does that? And how can anyone allow their kids to act like that? And I am supposed to be ok with all that? I don’t even respect my “wife” for letting this go on for a year and a half!
Two ultimatums, wow. Poor
Two ultimatums, wow. Poor doormat. It kinda sucks right now, but once your away from this mess and on your own, you will wonder why you didn't do it sooner. She will never be able to choose herself over her kids. She's a special kinda stupid.
You’re right
“She's a special kinda stupid.” And I made the sad mistake of falling in love with her.
Oh Lord
put on your big girl panties, stop feeling sorry for yourself and make an exit plan.get your valuables out of the house, find a good lawyer and make a livable budget as a single man.
I glanced at a few of your
I glanced at a few of your other blogs. And I have a few questions.
Why do the skids hate you so much? I mean I get that occasionally people do not like other people for absolutely no reason but I guess my question is this…You own no responsibility for the down fall of you and skids relationship?
With detail please….what do you want her to do to make YOU happy?
If you are done being a
If you are done being a doormat its time you stop telling your wife what you are going to do and just take action and do it. Right now she may think you're all talk and not going to back it up. Think long and hard if divorce is the route you want to take and if you do file the paper work and have her served.
Trust me this will be the only way you will get a reaction out of her. Either she gets upset about or doesn't put much of a flight. You still have to place your happiness 1st and take care of you!
Wishing you the best!