I wrote my first blog yesterday. I'm so upset - today DH is going to go get SS (almost 4) after work. I dislike my SS so much. It use to not be so bad. However, SS is also at the age where he fights on everything. He doesn't want to listen to anyone. Especially me, he throws toys and breaks them on purpose. He hits, bites & yells all the time. He is a repeat offender on saying NO. DH and I work on it and he tells SS he has to listen to me and respect me. We have very simple house rules. He is a smart kid, he just knows how to play the system.