daycare lady called and reported monday, still today no word...so i suggest to dh to call cps to see if claim is made, they say NO.

dh is "bothered" when he calls me to say there is no report, (internet poker sounds in background)

i say, what are you going to do? response: ugh, i dont know?

UM wtf, how about going up to daycare picking up ss and asking daycare lady why the hell she never filed a report?! how about lifting a fuking finger to do something to try and get to the bottom of this! Instead of me doing every fuking thing!

dh talked to daycare lady, she seemed to think that dh should talk to bm and her bf about the matter, and not call cps, as it would be a long stressful battle.

dh and i discussed that bm's maturity level is not capeable of handeling this situation, and that if bm finds out what ss is saying with out a professional stepping in, possibly he could be made to keep secrets for fear that bm or her bf would do something and then we wouldnt know what was happening with ss over at her home....

keep in mind, dh was served with papers 3 weeks after we got married. Bm calls him an abusive alcoholic, says that i yell at ss, he is afraid of me, i drink all the time blah blah blah....nothing of any truth or substance, just lies, because as she was dumb enough to actually put in her cs statement, she is running out of disability money and since shes been at home (she got fired last nov for doing illegal transactions at her job) she should continue to do so and she needs my dh to pay her more money, and thats why she wants full custody....nice bitch....anyways....

ugh, she just gets more and more white trash as the days go on. Im sure by the time ss goes in to school she will be mising teeth.