DH...Bend over for everyone but me
I really am starting to despise how every time I turn around something is coming up where DH feels the need to bend over for other people. First off my friend's oldest daughter's birthday party is on saturday. DH is getting the special princess's this weekend, they didn't show up last time so he's decided he didn't want to go.
Fine, I was going to take my 3 and go, nope not good enough. DH wants us as a "family" to go do something fun. I am not even sure what the hell that means because my 3 would have had fun with their friends at the party. He's mentioned some trip to a waterfall etc etc etc.
I personally think he wants to treat his special little brats, because they decided to grace us with their presence. It's a reoccuring them, to go do something while they are here, so they aren't bored or so they are being doted upon. It usually ends up some place him and the ex went with the kids and I have to hear all the freaking "remember whens".
Anywho, so I am already agreeing to not go to the party, to do said "family" thing, I'd really rather not go to because the little brats are going to ruin it with complaining. I'm going to have to put up with my kids being disappointed. I have already told my BS13 and he's not happy but understands.
So this sunday is HIS family reunion, I don't know these people. He didn't invite me while we were dating or even living together. I didn't get the pleasure of going until I had our daughter. Yep! Whatever!
DH just texts me "can we take 2 cars on sunday". Let me make this clear its' a 3 hour drive. So instead of just saying what is going on it's clear I'm going to have to drag it out of him.
The just of it is his cousins in D'ville wrecked their car again so they don't have a ride to the reunion. Funny they can find a ride to work or the store but not this. So now he wants me to drive 1 car with my 3 and him and his 2 drive another car, so he can stop on the way to pick them up.
This sounds so suspicious to me #1 and #2 why is this my damn problem. Why am I being inconvenienced and having to spend extra $$ on gas because they can't manage to keep a car on the ride between 3 adults.
It make seem mean and bitchy but I asked what was really going on because that sounded weird to me. What do they do about jobs? Oh x takes o to work and T takes S to work, so why can't these people who are part of that damn family take them to the reunion. hmmmmmm?
So since he's all about it. I tell him sure you can go with your kids and pick them up, I'll drive separate with mine and then you all will be happy. I think he got a little pissed and said he was trying to "discuss this" with me. WTF man? I am your wife and I am suppose to accomodate these other 3 adults because they can't keep their life/cars/etc together.
I told him to go by himself, he won't having that either because then he'd have to explain to MIL why. After about 10 texts, he says we'll just stop by to see them. UGH! These people are always texting when is "he" coming up to see them but never them to come and see us. WTF...If you wanted to see "him" so bad, you'd make an effort too.
I think his kids wanted him to theirselves and that way he could explain it all away. He forwarded a message from his mom supposedly that said that they weren't coming because O had wrecked the car again. Convenient.
For once I want to not have to deal with DH asking me to bend over so his "family" can have what they want. I don't even want to go to this stupid thing, I get ignored the whole day anyways. I go because he's my husband and MIL wants us to go, so everyone can see the baby.
UGH! I hate this crap. And this man thinks I should consider having another child with him.Grrrrrrrrrrrrrr