My SD mid 20's always wants to plan family functions and exclude me and my children, like thanksgiving, fathersday, and now 4th of july, i am so ticked off right now, that i just want to call her up and let her have a piece of my mind, the only thing that's stopping me is maybe that's what shes waiting on.. ?? please comment, i feel so helpless and i'm sick and tired of being made to feel like i don't even exist, not to mention my children.