I am really getting irritated that every time BM calls we are sending the kids home with money for this and for that. I don’t get it. SS10 just had eyes checked and we spent $500. on glasses 6 months ago. Why is he having another one done and why do we have to pay for it. He is 10 he is too young for contacts. If you want him to have contacts then YOU pay for it!!! When do these BM start taking responsibility for their kids. They are not a paycheck! Just cus you spread your legs and carried them for 9 months does not mean BD is forever in debt to you!!! This is really pissing me off.

We were laying in bed last night talking about the day’s events. Talking about Christmas for his kids and mine. Trying to put a budget in place for the holidays. Out of the blue he said that BM told him that she would watch OUR first (and last) baby when I go back to work :jawdrop: !!! WTH!!! HAS THIS WOMAN LOST HER EFFIN MIND?!?! This is the same woman who ranted and raved for weeks about how she was going to prove us unfit and refused to let the kids come over and how she was going to take him back to court to raise child support and called me every name under the sun...

So I finally got to see the SK this weekend. This is the first time since BM found out that we are having a baby... They still cannot spend the night but I was able to go to the movies and they were able to go to Mom-n-laws for our usual Sunday breakfast. Well we finished breakfast and got kitchen cleaned up and I asked what was on their Christmas lists this year so the youngest came in and was going over the things she wanted. Lol so when she was finished Mom-n-law asked her how she felt about having a new baby sister, and she just shrugged her shoulders...

Okay status updated, Bio-mom SAYS she is not upset that we have baby on the way. However she is still not letting kids come over. She says the reason for this is she is concerned for the safety of her children. :? Her excuse is because her oldest stole my daughter diary, and Bio-mom ripped out pages of MY DAUGHTERS diary claiming it said that she was going to kill her oldest, what ever... She won’t show these pages to either of us because she said that she is going to keep them if she ever has to take up to court (wtfe)...