So BF went and saw his lawyer today and she's going to draw up papers that either we get him fulltime(please god no cause it will only mean more psycho drama from BM), OR BM takes him fulltime...she's also drawing up something that should hopefully make her have to answer for collecting food stamps AND the child support while SS was in BF's care fulltime...so we're hoping THIS works..all we really want is an answer to why she ripped people off while this was going on...