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sixxnguns's picture

This woman never ceases to amaze me...Fiancee wrote her today and said she is 3 months behind on her half of the loan payment and he wants all 3 payments by the end of this month or he's going to take her back to court. She writes back and complains that she hasn't gotten her full child support in 2 months...it's like explaining something to a 2 year old...CSE takes the money out of his check and sends it to her...he has no control over what they take out...so she says since he "owes" her that remainder he can use that as her loan payment...what the hell is wrong with this woman?? She thinks everyone always owes her something...

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sixxnguns's picture

That's what I think of her everytime I see that initial...lol..I don't understand her problem...we even sent her the explanation from the FAQ section from child support explaining why you don't get the full amount every month and she still write's back "whatever, you owe me money and I'm not paying you until you pay me. So go to child support and tell them you want to pay the remainder of what you owe me." I've been receiving child support for 7 years and know that child support would laugh in her face if they heard this!

TheSaneOne's picture

Dont even discuss it with the bitch - file a contempt motion (pro se, this would be easy) then, if she still fails to pay - keep your documents, prosecute her civilly (depending on the amount of her default it may be small claims court) and ask for interest and atorney's fees and make her place a statement on your credit report
thats what we are doing, we offered to her our BB with the kids (just to get info, we pay our support plus do lots of extras and have skids a total of four months out of the year) we were concerned about the situation at home - pm for more info - and she calls demanding we make her van payment because my husband is primary on that account - sorry bitch u work 70 hours week, get child support and your mom pays all your bils including the van - we are not making that payment as well - told her she could keep her child support and give us the kids and then could pay her bills - oh but she has everything her kids need. if she wasn't out every weeknd both nights partying, buying herself clothes and tanning packages and getting tatts she could have made the payment - she just hates driving the very nice van my dh bought her before the divorce and wants a car - sorry chicko - i am proud of my mini van!

TheSaneOne's picture

also - ask your dh's employer if they will send in monthly instead 0 they may do that...lets see how fast she complains then.

sixxnguns's picture

if they can do that here but I'll have him check, I think it goes by how many pay periods are in a month, but they aren't taking out the full amount which makes me wonder if he's not making enough to make the full payments so he'd be in arrears, which is what she's trying to tell him. But he went up to the CSE the other day and said he was all caught up so I don't think there should be anything to worry about...I never knew someone could be so greedy...I will let him know about the other thing you said though about the loan...I totally agree with that situation...

sixxnguns's picture

from the child support office and technically he is behind like 200 dollars because for some reason his employer didn't send a check for his first pay period last month..so hes back to work to find out what's up with that. Also at the first of the month the NCP is automatically billed for that months support and they have a month to pay it, so yeah technically he's behind but it will all eventually be paid up by the end of the month...this woman is stupid...she didn't even think to ask the caseworker HOW the whole process works!!