Someone needs to explain to BM how fast word gets around in a small town.

One of the guys at work told DH that he saw BM out last weekend (her weekend to have the kids BTW) at a concert with out her hubby (chubby). She was drinking and dancing with other guys. The co-worker told Chubby (who also works with DH) that he saw his wife at the concert ( minus the details) and Chubby instantly got cranky then walked away. DH ask co-worker why he didn't tell him about the other men a d he said he didn't want to hurt him, but I would have to say based on his actions he didn't want her to go or has a good idea of what went down.

I don't think it's the first time she has gone out with out Chubby and we think she that is how she met Chubby. She would go out for 'girls night' when she was with DH and end up with random txt from guys.

Until Chubby though DH was from another town, Chubby is a local guy and his mom and dad are active in the community. So if BM is running around on him they likely know.