Here we go....
I knew at some point BM would switch up therapists b/c the current therapist was meeting with DH every other visit and the therapist I'm sure started catching on to the real problem....BM! Anyways, DH just forwarded me texts from BM. Now BM wants to know if our secondary insurance covers pediatric psychology b/c hers doesn't. Funny not that long ago she was complaining about my insurance being crappy and worthless. I have a federal employee health benefit plan. It isn't crap. It is the best insurance I have ever had.
Anyways, now BM is wanting to send SD to a pediatric pyschologist to get tested for learning disabilities/ADD/ADHD (she's 12 and never had any issues until now). DH also forwarded me the e-mail that BM had sent SD's teachers saying she thinks she has a learning disability and she never sees her doing any homework and her grades are reflecting that. Hmmmm, maybe she isn't doing her homework b/c you have her constantly booked back to back in sports and therapy?!?! Maybe she isn't doing homework b/c you give her no consequences and don't monitor her closely enough?!?! Nope, I'm sure that isn't it. Must be a learning disability.
She of course expected DH to find out if my insurance covered this new therapist. I told DH to send her a copy of the card and let her call and figure it out her damn self....LOL! I sure the hell am not doing it. This isn't my child. She's lucky I even added her to my plan because I was not required to.
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Girl, I do not know how you
Girl, I do not know how you are sane. I just can't with constant bull shit, and you my friend, have constant bull shit.
It seriously is! BM is
It seriously is! BM is psycho! She cannot let go. It is killing her that DH has stopped responding to her and has stuck to the schedule. I have mostly disengaged. It is definitely CONSTANT. Softball and field hockey ended so BM also already sent a text to DH "This is your OFFICIAL notice that SD will be starting skating every Wed and Sat"....like we are surprised. We already expected the next sport schedule to be in place once those seasons ended.
Ugh sounds like BM over here.
Ugh sounds like BM over here. SD has activities every single day of the week and DH has to pay for half. Now she is falling behind and needs tutoring and DH has to pay for half. I dunno maybe take her out of one activity? She does self defense, soccar, basketball, swimming, Sunday school and dance. It's too much and this 11 year old is burnt out.
SD needs braces and BM is already asking for money. My insurance would cover more than DH or BMs insurance. She wants to use his even though it covers less, I think she just wants him to pay more. I considered for a moment adding SD to my insurance but decided not to.
Well thankfully DH doesn't
Well thankfully DH doesn't have to pay for half of every sport (honestly surprised that wasn't in the effed up CO) but he does pay CS. Of course he is supposed to pay a percentage of the medical. I agree. She isn't doing well in school and she never receives any consequences for actions. Take her out of 1 of the sports she sucks at and just let her pick 1 thing she is actually good at and enjoys!!! Of course she is burnt out. Plus she is constantly taking her places and doing stuff on top of that to show she is MOTY!
Oh we just went through the braces ordea. Honestly that is why I added SD to my ins. My insurance covers braces and much more than BM's HDHP (of course mine is crap though according to BM). I knew she would be telling us we needed to pay for stuff so I added SD to help keep our costs to BM down. It didn't cost me any extra to add SD b/c I was already paying for family plan. I can almost guarentee BM just wants DH to pay more. I feel like it is her mission to suck us dry so she can be the fun parent and we have no money to do stuff on our time.
Laziness is a learning
Laziness is a learning disability.. shok!
Right?!?! Of course according
Right?!?! Of course according to BM. It couldn't possible be that she isn't the MOTY she thinks she is and over involves her in activities and places more importance on activities than time with her dad or school work?!?! I called this months ago...the switching therapist part. The learning disability seems to be a common theme with a lot of disordered BMs on this site though so I should have seen that coming!
Doctor shopping for the
Doctor shopping for the "right"answer, right out of the GUBM playbook.
Exactly! I called this long
Exactly! I called this long before it happened. I'm like a freaking psychic! LOL! It is right out of the GUBM playbook. I see it here all the time!
Ye Olde
Grasping at straws trying to find a disability or syndrome to cover as a smokescreen for non parenting
Yes, exactly and there is no
Yes, exactly and there is no way that SD has ADHD. That is a very far far stretch. Maybe a learning disability but I know people (my son) and others with ADHD.....SD has what I will call entitlement.....