Ok everyone, it finally happened. The dreaded dinner talk. It didn't go entirely as expected. I rode home from work with DH, and he said the skids were late, but they arrived that afternoon. He said he "lit into them and told them how much they hurt him when they told him he was a failure." Dh was in a foul mood. I was feeling okay until late afternoon, when my heart started doing the "fight or fight flip". I tried deep breathing, but it wasn't working. 

Hi,

So, as I mentioned in my previous blog, 2 Sundays ago was a sh*tshow. SD16 unloaded on me verbally because I ask her to keep it down while I was watching a movie. Then SD18 jumped on the bandwagon. DH sat on the couch acting like this wasn't his problem, and that his lack of parenting didn't lead us to this.

So, after SD16 and SD18 ganged up on me recently, to shout about how much they hate me because their BM tells them to, I've come to a decision. DH has been generally messing up my cell phone account. He constantly breaks his phones and has to buy new ones, so he's put his most recent phone purchase on a "payment plan" on my account, which I added him to years ago. I am getting tired of us always being stuck with this carrier because we have a phone balance on our account.

This is a bit off topic, but something I find interesting. Family dynamics have often fascinated me, because my family had such an odd dynamic when I was growing up. It took years of therapy for me to figure out that I was not the crazy one. LOL.