BM walks all throughout the house we now share
Hello all! I'm new here but have read some posts. I just want to know if I'm being too sensitive. I moved in with my boyfriend and his two teenage sons (14 and 17) about 6 months ago. The house I moved into is the house he shared with his ex. He still allows her to come into the house and walk all around. Actually, he invites her in and asks her to look at the water heater, at the kids' bedrooms, etc. I've mentioned several times that I'm not comfortable with that. Each time he acts like I'm trying to make him choose between me and the kids. But, all I'm saying is she has no reason to be walking past the bedroom when I'm laying there! The kids are old enough that they don't need their mommy to come look at their room. The kids have no boundaries at all. We got along for the most part until I moved in. now there's constantly a power struggle over everything. After making a comment last night to one of the boys he said, "Why are you even in this conversation!? You have no right to say anything!" Now I feel like I've made a terrible, terrible mistake!