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FIL called DH radicalized for expecting respect and boundaries

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As I had posted on another (now deleted) blog post about taking our two shared kids to Europe this summer and maybe seeing the in-laws who have no respect for me and no boundaries when it comes to BM. I have no problem with DH seeing them at all. But they will want to see the kids.

Do you care if skids like you?

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Someone had made a comment on a previous blog post that a rule I was thinking of implementing for skid would have the result of his thinking I don’t like him or want him around. The fact that something I wanted to do would have that effect wouldn’t change my mind in the slightest. I don’t care if skid thinks I don’t like him. I can’t base my decisions on whether or not he may think that. So this begs the question: do you care if skids think you like them or not? Why or why not?

Skids touching/using your stuff

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Ugh, I hate it when SS11 is here and touches or uses things that specifically belong to me. I got a mini-trampoline not too long before his spring break visit and one of the first things he does is start jumping on it. I have an old piano in storage that my mother had given me that I'll be bringing into the family room next year because my 3.5yr old will be taking lessons then. DH just told me today that BM just had SS start piano lessons.