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Divorce terms finally settled

secret's picture

At the end of the day, he's accepted an offer I made... which ended up mostly paying his lawyer's bill... we didnt have to go to trial, it got settled in mediation. His lawyer strongly suggested he yake the offer. It was less than half of what id have been legally accountable for if we'd gone to trial and the judge decided not to reduce equalization etc... and the divorce was filed. Waiting for the order.

In the end, he realized hiw badly he messed up..and broke down in the mediation claiming he did everything I asked.. and it got pointed out that the only thing I asked, that he did, was leave. Lol

I'm completing the renos he started in 2019... I've got money in the bank.. i like my job.. my kids are happy.. I'm happy.. life is good!

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shamds's picture

On som bonkers planet believed you were financially responsible for him and his kid (that he had with another woman) 

he's somebody elses problem no. Must be a massive weight off your chest lifted

CLove's picture

Thanks for the update. So glad that you are doing well.

Biggrin made me smile today Biggrin

Rags's picture

Enjoy your new baggage free life adventure.

Exjuliemccoy's picture

Yay! So glad you can back to update us.

What about the SUV? Did your ex ever pay you back for the missed payments?

secret's picture

Nope... but it was calculated as part of the equalization process as an asset for him, so in the end it was counted...

 

Doesn't matter, bought myself another suv anyway lol