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An update.

Apparently BM has stepped in it. The IT is a big pile of sh1t that she began stirring quite some time ago.

SO's attorney called the attorney that issued his and my subpoenas. Apparently BM has had an RO against her, that she is not to contact this gentleman, for several months. This is the 2nd time she has violated it. First time she got a notice to appear and had to pay a fine. This time they are attempting to lengthen the duration of the RO to permanent and get jail time.

Selective Memory...

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It seems the BM in my life has it.

I received this morning, bright and early at 8:00 as I was walking in the door to work... a subpeona. BM was arrested nearly two weeks ago for stalking and apparently has a court date coming up for it.

The idiot subpeona'd me as a character witness.

1) Who has to subpeona character witnesses?

2) Shouldn't a character witness be your FRIEND or COWORKER?
Someone you go to church with? Someone who actually LIKES you?

It is amazing what one learns if they act they they are not listening.

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SO did this last night when the fskids were dropped off. Something about mom not being home Friday night, their "aunt" (BM's second cousin that goes by the title of Aunt) was at the house "watching" them. Seems BM got home Satuday afternoon.

SO found this a little suspicious as BM has never made overnight plans when she has the fskids so he looked into it this morning. He just called me with the results of his investigation. BM was arrested Friday night. Charged with public intoxication and stalking.

Liar Liar and the punishment that seems to work

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A lot of upheaval lately in life. Will blog about it all later during the weekend. I have read a lot of posts on here recently of kids lying. About anything and everything. SO came up with an interesting punishment. FSD was busted lying, three times in a day. FSD is learning that lesson of once you break trust it is incredibly hard to rebuild.

It starts

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Ok, so I am missing my peaceful Sunday morning up too early time already.

SO's phone went off. BM texting him to tell him that she would be dropping the kids off at 9pm this evening as they had "plans". He called her back, no answer. So he texted her back and told her no. Drop off was at 6pm and the kids better be at his house at 6pm or she would be in court for contempt. That she was not to 'make plans' with the kids during his time.

8am Sunday Morning and I am awake...

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Why is it when you get a weekend where you can sleep in, you just can't? Your eyes open up and you are wide the heck awake with no ability to fall back asleep?

SO is on my couch, snoring. He 'spent the night' last evening, on the couch not in my room as DD was home. He was over last evening and fell asleep on the couch so I covered him up with a blanket and he is still asleep. DD is in her room sound asleep as well. Me? in the office/den/spare bedroom on the computer coffee in hand wondering why I am awake when everyone else is asleep.

Boundaries and BM's

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Apparently the latter thinks the former does not apply to her.

Allow me to explain. I think I am finally calm enough to be able to explain what turned me from a sane rational human being into a foul mouthed, ill tempered, bitch on wheels last evening.

Since DD joined my family SO and I have had precious little personal time. Neither of us is keen on the idea of sleep overs when minor children are present and since DD is now always present in the home, personal time together is at a premium. An hour here or there at best and those time are very few and far between.

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