"Because you can't take my kids away from me" ...

As to why appeasing BM is more important than appeasing me. I'm not a priority. And it sounds like I never will be. It's easier to fight with me than fight with her because when I'm mad, I can't keep the kids from him. I always figured that was the case, but I guess it's confirmed now.

I told him of that's the case, I should probably break up with him because I'll never be happy just settling for second best. His response? "Who are you coming second to?" He must be stupid. Making another woman priority over me is basically slapping a big red flashing #2 over my head. Sorry I want to be the most important thing in the world to my partner.

Ugh I've had about all I can take of this life ... Fuck...

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That statement right there is

That statement right there is a large part of why the skids most of us deal with are undisciplined, immature, irresponsible, disrespectful turds. BF is "afraid" of BM and walks on eggshells around her and the skids for fear of retaliation, because lets face it, she's not gonna stick a bag a flaming dog poo on your doorstep and run away giggling. She is going to threaten to take away the skids. Hell, we have about 80% custody of our skid and SO is the CP and for some reason we still have to handle skid and the Crazy Oompa Loompa like they are delicate newborns.