I got upset earlier about something but then remembered not my monkey not my circus and went about my day.   Something about how his dad took the whole day off work because he might have to take him into the doctor because he was feeling sick.    Well about 4:30 took him in, waiting on the verdict, my guess is flu is that is going around .   I'm feeling pretty good, once I put it into perspective that why am I obsesing over everything, if this kid wants to eat crap, sleep all day and skip school as long as there are no ramifications for me not my problem.  School called yesterday that he was absent,  I ignored it since his dad gets the same phone call and could handle it.  Sick today, so sorry , hope you feel better soon but dad took care of getting medicine and him to the doctor appointment.  I do feel bad on occasion but me not worrying about it or putting it into perspective is making me a lot more relaxed and I am able to give a intelligent answer rather than reacting emotionally.