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Now SD 21 is living with us.   SS has continued his nocturanl feeding schedule with a twist. He's awake during the day with periodic naps throughout.   SD joins us for meals.

About a month ago DH smelled pot in SS car and banned him from driving for a month and said if he catches him again he will sell the car. Its the second time he's been caught .    I figure if its in your car you were just smoking it or someoone just smoking it around you in your car.  Needless to say that stopped the going out at 9/10 at night to get you guessed it pot.  

Now his sister is here and we were out talking with neighbors and the woman joked about going and getting weed, his daughter was all over that , yes let's go.  She acknowledged that she won't smoke in the house and that her mom doesn't like the smell.  Anyway I knew it wasnt going to happen, as these people don't go out to the store due to COVID-19.   We were across the street from them talkiing.  Anyhow, three days later SS and SD go off in his car.  Its ok, she's with him.  They were heading to the same town to score the gummies for SS.  Probably scored other stuff , its legal in that state , for medical purposes but ... And they both know better than to drive high.  Yadda yadda.

She's better than him, comes out, talks to us, makes herself at home .  He's a bit better but still largely stays in his room,  He comes up when we're eating off and on but never joins us but will re-heat his meal hours later.  He'll come up and totally ignore everyone.

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tog redux's picture

I can't believe your DH actually set a limit on him around the car.  How/why was he able to do that so easily when he struggles otherwise to set any?

Sam2's picture

I'm totally confused.  At this point I am hoping the mom gets her act together ,gets a place and they can all be happy at home away from here.   Now its apparently ok for his daughter to hang out with friends during this pandemic.  We live in one of the highest incidences in our state but hey go out and hang out with friends because you're bored.  She mentioned that we're not doing anything.  Well dad has lost his job and you chose to be here.   Last time she went out with friends , she ended up missing for two days and was found in the middle of nowhere with no idea of where she was and a weakening cell phone signal.  The house that was nearby had a bunch of high teenagers we were very wierd.